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Educating a Baby to Become an 'English Gentleman' – Is It Worth the Investment?

Child education concept
The firm behind the advertisement states that what looks like "extravagance or peculiarity" is actually "intentional commitment in early-stage education".

"Parents residing in North London seeks an exceptional and skilled educator to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this listing, you might readily overlook the phrase "first-steps" as just figurative language.

But, it could be the most significant part of this distinctive job advert, as it attempts to recruit a tutor for a infant.

Numerous of applications have now been received since the anonymous family advertised their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the listing has gained attention throughout the media, with many questioning why?

Forward-Thinking Method

A tutoring expert, head and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is assisting the family in their search, said that despite early doubt, he considered the concept "forward-looking", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he said they understood the unconventional character of their requirement, and how immature their son is.

But, they explained that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their elder sibling was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had already set in".

What precisely did the family mean by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert responded. "How you eat, how you speak".

He said the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family informed him they hoped to prevent history to repeat itself with their infant.

The strategy: To bring in a English tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby right from the beginning.

Tutoring discussion
The education firm say the advert has initiated a larger discussion about how parents perceive learning, advantage and the role of cultural environment in education.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the development at the beginning here is somewhat absorbed naturally," explained Adam.

It's via this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will pick up the British traits they want to cultivate.

He noted the tutor needed to be somebody who studied at "the right kinds of schools – similar types of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The instructor just has to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, simply by nature," he added.

Money No Object

The family told Adam the chosen tutor should ideally also have understanding of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to influence the child in a wide range of passions.

Additionally though, he stated the family hoped the tutor to register the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "pony-riding and learning an musical instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son become a "UK sophisticate" will bring about accomplishment and create opportunities.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he adds.

However, despite all this instruction in "English culture", would the child pick up so-called cultural influence from the multicultural family he resides with in any case?

"Certainly", answered he. "The family understand this may not work, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as early as we can', because the price of it is not a concern," he explained.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the private teaching field who have similar reservations.

Another CEO, chief executive of Blue Education, who provides private tutors, stated that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

He noted that he had moved from Asia to the UK at the time of seven, and had been educated understanding and practicing two backgrounds. He continued to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

Peter Cui portrait
Peter Cui was the first person hailing from mainland China to be elected to the role of Finance Head of the university debating society.

"The idea that one individual can function as a representation of English culture, an individual who can possibly transplant the qualities of a UK sophisticate to a 12-month-old child, appears naive and impractical," he stated.

"Based on my background, having a distinctly UK tutor from early childhood will does not instantly create the outcome they desire.

"I never had such a figure, and yet I have been fortunate enough to enjoy several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He added: "The fact is, cultural identity cannot be imposed from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the expert hopes can be taught – and marketed.

"I believe the fact that the international society views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating

The writer

Heather Montgomery

Elena Voss is a freelance writer passionate about urbanism and cultural exploration, with a background in sociology.

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